Consider this a first draft as I’ve been only married for a few months, the second draft coming in another two years.
Being married to your best friend is a beautiful thing, but how can we be our own individual when your life becomes so tied up with someone you not only consider your bestest friend but now your family too?
To start with, him and I know that we have different interests in life, I am more of an introvert and he is more of an extrovert and we are completely okay with that. We connect and bond over our values and goals in life, but our interests are day and night and that’s alright.
Finding common ground in some things is important ofcourse, for e.g. we love watching movies and tv and we can do that all day together, then I might end my day in the bathtub while he ends his day hanging out with his friends.
To love is to find someone you want to build a future with and someone you want to grow old with and most importantly someone who will teach you new things in life and that’s why I love him so much! He’s introduced me to a lot of new things in life, new experiences, new foods and it’s really these little things that make life so magical.
To conclude, don’t be afraid to be open to change, don’t look for the female or male version of yourself because love is love no matter what it looks like.
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